The Basics of Healthy Relationships
One person told me that while I was delaying the release of this book, so many couples would have time to ruin their lives. Oh, no. Everyone is in charge of their own destiny. And the thing is, there’s nothing in this book that they don’t already know. In relationships, people make conscious mistakes even when they know exactly how to behave. After all, everyone knows that the foundation of a healthy relationship is…
Happymoon. The Basics of Healthy Relationships
A practical guide to building a strong and trusting relationship
If you’re expecting to see another monumental work on relationship psychology, I’m afraid I’ll have to disappoint you. This is more of a children’s book for adults who keep making the same mistakes in their relationships over and over again.
We all dream of perfect love—a partner who understands us without words, relationships without conflicts or disappointments. But reality often looks different. Why? Because we approach relationships with wrong expectations and outdated notions.
In this book, I invite you to take a fresh look at relationships. Together, we’ll explore why traditional advice about love often falls short and discover what it really takes to build strong, healthy relationships.
I won’t offer fairy tales about eternal love, but I will share a universal recipe for happiness. We’ll discuss the real problems couples face and the practical tools to solve them.
“And They Lived Happily Ever After”… or Did They?
A Relationship Workbook for Couples
In any relationship, compatibility isn’t a given—it’s a skill. The difference between thriving couples and struggling ones lies in their ability to communicate.
“And They Lived Happily Ever After”… or Did They? takes you on a transformative 30-day journey that can reshape your relationship. This isn’t another collection of psychological theories or complex techniques—it’s a simple, effective guide to mastering what truly matters: communication.
Through this workbook, you’ll follow Anna and Michael, an ordinary couple who realized their relationship needed change. Their path wasn’t perfect. They stumbled, doubted, and sometimes wanted to give up. But they kept going, learning the most essential lesson—how to truly hear each other and find common ground.
Sounds too good to be true. I’m sorry, Arthur. You asked for an honest review. Not everyone can do that. Regina.
Where were you before?! Unfortunately, I can’t take your advice right now. We’re getting divorced. But I will start a new relationship using your book! Paul.
What you’re suggesting might work, but it’s still a long way from real family therapy. Olga.
Questionable practice, but damn interested! Rome.
As a family psychologist and relationship counselor, I have reviewed Arthur Tiger’s new work with great interest. The book offers a unique perspective on building healthy relationships, striking a balance between practical guidance and philosophical reflections on the nature of love and partnership.
Key strengths of the book:
- A pragmatic approach to relationships through the lens of agreements and mutual commitments. The author rightly notes that any long-term relationship is built on a certain “contract” — whether explicit or implicit.
- A fascinating concept of a month-long experiment allowing couples to try a new way of interacting without long-term obligations. This is a psychologically sound approach that reduces resistance to change.
- A profound analysis of the nature of love that goes beyond both purely hormonal theory and romantic notions. The author proposes viewing love as a conscious choice and daily decision.
However, there are aspects that raise professional concerns:
- Over-simplification of complex psychological processes. While the author strives for practicality, some recommendations may seem naive for couples with deep-rooted relationship issues.
- Insufficient attention to dealing with trauma and psychological patterns that often underlie relationship problems.
- The ironic stance toward traditional psychotherapy (especially in the “Euphoria Harmony” chapter) might give readers the wrong impression about the potential of professional help.
Despite these observations, the book offers a fresh perspective on building relationships. Particularly valuable is its emphasis on practical tools and specific actions couples can take to improve their relationships.
The book can be helpful for couples at various stages of their relationships, especially those seeking a structured approach to solving relationship problems. However, it’s important to understand that for couples with serious psychological issues, it should serve as a complement to, not a replacement for, professional psychological help.
Dr. Michael S., Family Psychologist
… I know there are countless expert books out there on this subject, but I’m going to cut to the chase and offer a simple solution to complex problems from an ordinary person’s perspective. My name is Arthur Tiger. I confess, I’m not a psychologist. I’m the last person you should go to with your mental problems. I’m not trying to help you save your relationship, let alone destroy it. You can do that without me. Just showing you the way to do one or the other faster.